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## Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
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**Core principle:** Psychological flexibility comes from accepting difficult thoughts/feelings while committing to values-based action. The goal is not to eliminate pain, but to live fully alongside it.
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### Six Core Processes
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**1. Acceptance**
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- Willingness to experience difficult thoughts and feelings
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- Not resignation, but active openness
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- "Make room for this feeling rather than fighting it"
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**2. Cognitive Defusion**
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- Creating distance from thoughts
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- Thoughts are mental events, not facts
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- Techniques: "I notice I'm having the thought that...", naming the story ("There's the 'I'm not good enough' story again")
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**3. Present Moment Awareness**
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- Mindful contact with the here and now
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- Noticing what's happening vs. being lost in past/future
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- Grounding techniques
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**4. Self-as-Context**
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- The observing self vs. the thinking self
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- "You are the sky; thoughts and feelings are weather"
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- Stable sense of self that can hold all experiences
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**5. Values Clarification**
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- What matters most to this person?
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- Values as directions, not destinations
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- Values vs. goals (values can't be "achieved")
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**6. Committed Action**
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- Concrete steps aligned with values
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- Willingness to experience discomfort in service of values
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- Building patterns of values-consistent behavior
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### Key Questions
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- "What would you do if these thoughts/feelings weren't in the way?"
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- "What does this situation look like through the lens of your values?"
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- "Is this action moving you toward or away from what matters?"
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- "What would you be willing to feel in order to have the life you want?"
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### When to Use ACT
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- Chronic pain or illness
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- Anxiety (especially when avoidance is prominent)
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- Depression
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- Grief and loss
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- Major life transitions
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- Perfectionism and self-criticism
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- When CBT "thought challenging" isn't landing
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### ACT Exercises
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- Values card sort or clarification
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- Defusion exercises (leaves on a stream, passengers on the bus)
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- Willingness scale (0-10, how willing are you to feel X to do Y?)
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- Committed action planning
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- Mindfulness practices
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## Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
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**Core principle:** Thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are interconnected. Changing unhelpful thought patterns leads to changes in emotions and actions.
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### Key Techniques
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**Cognitive Restructuring**
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- Identify automatic negative thoughts
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- Examine evidence for and against the thought
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- Develop balanced, realistic alternative thoughts
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- Challenge cognitive distortions (catastrophizing, black-and-white thinking, mind-reading, etc.)
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**Behavioral Activation**
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- Identify activities that improve mood
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- Schedule positive activities, especially when motivation is low
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- Track activity and mood connections
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- Gradually increase engagement with rewarding activities
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**Exposure**
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- Gradually face avoided situations
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- Build exposure hierarchies (least to most anxiety-provoking)
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- Process what was learned after each exposure
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- Challenge avoidance patterns
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**Thought Records**
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When the client describes a difficult situation, guide them through:
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1. Situation: What happened?
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2. Automatic thought: What went through your mind?
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3. Emotion: What did you feel? (0-100 intensity)
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4. Evidence for: What supports this thought?
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5. Evidence against: What doesn't support it?
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6. Balanced thought: What's a more realistic view?
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7. Outcome: How do you feel now?
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### When to Use CBT
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- Anxiety (generalized, social, phobias)
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- Depression
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- Rumination and worry
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- Perfectionism
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- Procrastination
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- Negative self-talk
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### CBT Homework Examples
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- Daily thought record
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- Behavioral experiment ("Test your prediction")
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- Activity scheduling
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- Worry time (contained worry practice)
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- Graded exposure task
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## Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT)
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**Core principle:** Many psychological difficulties stem from an overactive threat system and an underdeveloped soothing system. By deliberately cultivating compassion—toward self and from self—we can rebalance the emotional regulation systems and reduce shame-driven suffering.
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### Three Emotion Regulation Systems
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**1. Threat and Protection System**
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- Detects danger, drives fight/flight/freeze
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- Emotions: anxiety, anger, disgust, shame
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- Fast, powerful, designed to dominate attention
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- Often overactive in people with harsh inner critics or trauma histories
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**2. Drive and Resource-Seeking System**
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- Motivates pursuing goals, rewards, achievements
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- Emotions: excitement, anticipation, pleasure
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- Can become compulsive (always chasing, never resting)
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- Activating but not soothing
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**3. Soothing and Contentment System**
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- Creates feelings of safety, connection, calm
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- Emotions: peacefulness, warmth, contentment
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- Linked to attachment, caregiving, and oxytocin
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- Often underdeveloped in people who grew up without consistent warmth
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### Key Concepts
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**Compassionate Self** — A version of self deliberately cultivated to embody wisdom, strength, warmth, and commitment to alleviating suffering. Not who you are yet, but who you practice becoming.
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**Self-Criticism → Self-Compassion** — The inner critic often developed as a protection ("If I attack myself first, I stay safe"). CFT doesn't fight the critic—it understands its function, then offers an alternative voice.
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**Shame** — A core focus of CFT. Shame says "I am bad" (not "I did something bad"). CFT works directly with shame by building tolerance for it and offering compassionate counter-responses.
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**Common Humanity** — Suffering is not a personal failing. Our brains evolved for survival, not happiness. Many difficulties arise from "tricky brains" we didn't choose and didn't design.
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### Key Practices
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**Compassionate Letter Writing**
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- Write to yourself from the perspective of your compassionate self
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- Acknowledge suffering without minimizing
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- Offer understanding of how you got here
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- Express warmth and encouragement
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**Compassionate Image/Figure**
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- Visualize a being (real, imagined, or archetypal) that embodies perfect compassion toward you
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- Practice receiving warmth, understanding, and strength from this figure
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- Build the felt sense of being cared for
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**Soothing Rhythm Breathing**
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- Slow, rhythmic breathing to activate the parasympathetic system
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- Typically: inhale for a count, exhale slightly longer
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- Used as a foundation before other compassion practices
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### Key Questions
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- "What would your compassionate self say to you right now?"
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- "What system is running the show in this moment—threat, drive, or soothing?"
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- "What did your inner critic learn to protect you from?"
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- "What would it feel like to receive compassion in this moment?"
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- "How would you respond to a dear friend experiencing this?"
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### When to Use CFT
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- Persistent self-criticism or harsh inner voice
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- Shame (especially chronic or toxic shame)
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- Difficulty receiving care, warmth, or compliments
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- Trauma histories involving criticism, neglect, or conditional love
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- Perfectionism driven by fear of inadequacy
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- Depression with strong self-blame component
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- When standard CBT thought-challenging feels invalidating
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### CFT Exercises
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- Three-system check-in: "Which system is most active right now?"
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- Compassionate letter to self about a current struggle
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- Soothing rhythm breathing (2-3 minutes daily)
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- Compassionate self visualization
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- Rewriting self-critical thoughts in a compassionate voice
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## DBT Skills
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**Core principle:** Dialectical Behavior Therapy skills help with emotional regulation, distress tolerance, interpersonal effectiveness, and mindfulness. Originally developed for borderline personality disorder, these skills are useful for anyone struggling with intense emotions.
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### Four Skill Modules
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### 1. Distress Tolerance
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Skills for surviving crisis moments without making things worse.
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**TIPP (Change Body Chemistry)**
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- **T**emperature: Cold water on face, ice cube in hand
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- **I**ntense exercise: Brief burst of physical activity
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- **P**aced breathing: Slow exhale longer than inhale
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- **P**rogressive muscle relaxation
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**ACCEPTS (Distract)**
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- **A**ctivities: Do something engaging
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- **C**ontributing: Help someone else
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- **C**omparisons: Perspective (could be worse, was worse before)
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- **E**motions: Generate different emotion (comedy, music)
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- **P**ushing away: Mentally set it aside temporarily
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- **T**houghts: Occupy mind with other thoughts
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- **S**ensations: Strong physical sensations (ice, strong taste)
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**Radical Acceptance**
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- Accepting reality as it is (not approving of it)
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- "It is what it is" as starting point for change
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- Fighting reality causes suffering; acceptance allows action
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### 2. Emotional Regulation
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Skills for understanding and managing emotions over time.
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**Check the Facts**
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- What triggered the emotion?
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- What am I interpreting or assuming?
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- Does my emotional intensity fit the facts?
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- Is there another way to see this?
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**Opposite Action**
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- When emotion doesn't fit the facts or isn't effective
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- Fear → Approach
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- Anger → Gently avoid, be kind
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- Shame → Share with trusted person
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- Sadness → Get active, engage
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**PLEASE (Reduce Vulnerability)**
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- **P**hysical i**L**lness: Treat it
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- **E**ating: Balanced, regular meals
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- **A**void mood-altering substances
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- **S**leep: Consistent, adequate
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- **E**xercise: Regular movement
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**Build Positive Experiences**
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- Short-term: Pleasant activities daily
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- Long-term: Work toward life worth living goals
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### 3. Interpersonal Effectiveness
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Skills for navigating relationships while maintaining self-respect.
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**DEAR MAN (Getting What You Need)**
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- **D**escribe: State facts without judgment
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- **E**xpress: Share feelings using "I" statements
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- **A**ssert: Ask clearly for what you want
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- **R**einforce: Explain positive outcomes of getting it
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- **M**indful: Stay focused, don't get derailed
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- **A**ppear confident: Body language, tone
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- **N**egotiate: Be willing to give to get
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**GIVE (Maintaining Relationship)**
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- **G**entle: No attacks, threats, judgment
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- **I**nterested: Listen, show interest
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- **V**alidate: Acknowledge their perspective
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- **E**asy manner: Light touch, humor if appropriate
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**FAST (Maintaining Self-Respect)**
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- **F**air: To yourself and others
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- **A**pologies: Don't over-apologize
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- **S**tick to values: Don't compromise what matters
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- **T**ruthful: Don't lie or exaggerate
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### 4. Mindfulness
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Skills for present-moment awareness and wise action.
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**What Skills (What to Do)**
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- **Observe:** Notice without words
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- **Describe:** Put words to experience
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- **Participate:** Fully engage in the moment
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**How Skills (How to Do It)**
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- **Non-judgmentally:** No good/bad labels
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- **One-mindfully:** One thing at a time
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- **Effectively:** Do what works
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**Wise Mind**
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- Integration of emotional mind and rational mind
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- Intuitive knowing that considers both facts and feelings
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- "What does my wise mind say about this?"
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### When to Use DBT Skills
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- Intense emotions that feel overwhelming
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- Urges to engage in harmful behaviors
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- Interpersonal conflict
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- Crisis moments
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- Chronic emotional dysregulation
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- Self-harm or suicidal urges (crisis skills)
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### DBT Homework Examples
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- Distress tolerance skill practice during urges
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- Emotion diary with intensity ratings
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- DEAR MAN planning for upcoming conversation
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- Daily mindfulness practice (even 2 minutes)
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- Opposite action experiment
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## Internal Family Systems (IFS)
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**Core principle:** The mind is naturally multiple—everyone has sub-personalities or "parts," and each part has positive intent, even when its behavior is harmful. Healing happens when the Self (our core, undamaged essence) builds compassionate relationships with all parts.
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### The System
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**Parts** are sub-personalities that carry emotions, beliefs, and roles. They develop to protect us, especially from early pain. No part is bad—but parts can take on extreme roles when burdened.
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**Self** is the core of a person—who they are beneath all protective layers. Self is always present, never damaged, and naturally possesses the 8 C's:
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- Calm, Curiosity, Clarity, Compassion
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- Confidence, Courage, Creativity, Connectedness
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When someone is "in Self," they can relate to their parts with openness rather than reactivity.
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### Three Types of Parts
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**Exiles**
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- Young, wounded parts carrying pain, shame, fear, or loneliness
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- Often frozen in the past, in moments of overwhelm
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- Other parts work hard to keep Exiles out of awareness
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**Managers**
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- Proactive protectors that try to prevent pain before it happens
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- Strategies: people-pleasing, perfectionism, control, intellectualizing, caretaking
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- Keep life structured and Exiles locked away
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**Firefighters**
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- Reactive protectors that activate when Exiles break through
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- Strategies: numbing, bingeing, dissociation, rage, self-harm, substance use
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- Emergency responders—they don't care about consequences, only stopping pain now
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### Key Concepts
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**Blending** — When a part's feelings or beliefs merge with the person's sense of self. "I am worthless" (blended) vs. "A part of me feels worthless" (unblended).
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**Unblending** — Creating separation between Self and a part. The first step in all IFS work. Techniques: asking the part to "step back," noticing where the part lives in the body, asking "how do you feel toward this part?"
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**Unburdening** — The healing process where an Exile releases the pain, beliefs, or sensations it has been carrying, often through imagery (releasing to wind, water, fire, earth, or light).
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**Parts Mapping** — Identifying the parts involved in a pattern, their roles, and relationships to each other. Helps see the internal system as a whole.
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### Key Questions
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- "How do you feel toward that part?" (checks for Self-energy vs. another part responding)
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- "What does this part want you to know?"
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- "What is it afraid would happen if it stopped doing its job?"
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- "How old does this part seem?"
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- "Where do you notice this part in your body?"
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### When to Use IFS
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- Inner conflict ("Part of me wants X, but another part...")
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- Self-criticism and shame cycles
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- Patterns that resist change despite insight
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- Trauma work (with care and pacing)
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- Emotional overwhelm or numbness
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- Relationship difficulties driven by protective parts
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- Addictive or compulsive behaviors
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### IFS Exercises
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- Parts mapping or journaling (who shows up around this issue?)
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- "Getting to know" a part: approaching with curiosity, asking what it needs
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- Noticing blending in real time: "Is that me or a part?"
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- Self-energy check-in: "How much Self do I have access to right now?"
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- Guided unburdening visualization (only when parts are ready)
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## Lifespan Integration (LI)
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**Core principle:** The brain heals trauma by integrating fragmented memories into a coherent life narrative. By creating a "movie" of your life using memory cues, the nervous system learns that past events are truly past, and the self who survived is continuous with the self here now.
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### How It Works
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- Create a timeline of memories from birth to present
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- Move through the timeline repeatedly, allowing the body to integrate
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- The repetition teaches the nervous system: "That was then. I'm here now. I survived."
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- Often described as "psychological acupuncture"—precise, body-based, efficient
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### Key Concepts
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**Memory cues**
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- Simple images from each year of life used to build the timeline
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- Don't need to be significant events—just clear memories
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- The sequence matters more than the content
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**Repetition**
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- Multiple passes through the timeline in a single session
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- Each pass deepens integration
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- The nervous system "gets" it through repetition, not analysis
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**Body-based integration**
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- The work happens below conscious thought
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- Notice body sensations as you move through time
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- Integration often feels like settling, releasing, or clarity
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**Neural time**
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- Helping the brain understand the past is past
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- Trauma can make past events feel present
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- The timeline re-establishes temporal order
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### When to Use LI
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- C-PTSD and complex trauma
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- Early attachment wounds
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- Dissociation or fragmented sense of self
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- When talk therapy has hit a wall
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- Trauma that feels "stuck in the body"
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- Fragmented sense of self across time
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- Difficulty connecting past experiences to present patterns
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### Important Note
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- Help the client see their life as a continuous narrative
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- Connect past experiences to present patterns
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- Emphasize that survival happened and is ongoing
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- Use timeline work to build coherence: "What was happening in your life when you were [age]?"
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- Gently remind: "That was then. You're here now."
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### LI-Informed Questions
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- "Can you walk me through your life story briefly—key moments from childhood to now?"
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- "When you think back to that time, what do you notice in your body now?"
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- "What does it mean to you that you survived that?"
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- "How does the person you were then connect to who you are now?"
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## Motivational Interviewing (MI)
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**Core principle:** People are more likely to change when they talk themselves into it than when someone else tries to convince them. Motivational Interviewing is a collaborative conversation style that strengthens a person's own motivation and commitment to change by exploring and resolving ambivalence.
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### The Spirit of MI
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Four elements that define the approach:
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- **Partnership** — Working with, not on, the person. They are the expert on their own life.
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- **Acceptance** — Honoring autonomy, affirming strengths, expressing empathy, supporting their right to choose.
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- **Compassion** — Prioritizing the person's welfare and best interests.
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- **Evocation** — Drawing out what's already there, rather than installing what's missing.
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### OARS: Core Skills
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**Open Questions**
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- Questions that invite reflection and elaboration
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- "What concerns you about this?" vs. "Are you concerned?"
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- "How would you like things to be different?"
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**Affirmations**
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- Genuine recognition of strengths, effort, and values
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- Not praise ("Good job!") but reflection of character ("That took courage")
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- "You care deeply about your kids—that comes through clearly"
|
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|
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**Reflections**
|
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- The most important MI skill—listening and giving back what you hear
|
||||
- Simple: repeating or rephrasing ("You're frustrated")
|
||||
- Complex: reflecting meaning, feeling, or what's unsaid ("Part of you really wants this, and part of you is scared of what it would mean")
|
||||
|
||||
**Summaries**
|
||||
- Collecting what's been said, linking ideas together
|
||||
- Especially useful for gathering change talk into one place
|
||||
- "So on one hand... and on the other hand... and what matters most to you is..."
|
||||
|
||||
### Change Talk vs. Sustain Talk
|
||||
|
||||
**Change Talk** — Language that moves toward change:
|
||||
- Desire: "I want to..."
|
||||
- Ability: "I could..."
|
||||
- Reasons: "I'd be healthier if..."
|
||||
- Need: "I have to..."
|
||||
- Commitment: "I will..."
|
||||
- Taking steps: "I actually started..."
|
||||
|
||||
**Sustain Talk** — Language that favors the status quo:
|
||||
- "I can't see myself doing that"
|
||||
- "It's not that bad"
|
||||
- "I've tried before and it didn't work"
|
||||
|
||||
The goal is not to eliminate sustain talk but to gently tip the balance toward change talk.
|
||||
|
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### Key Concepts
|
||||
|
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**Ambivalence** — Wanting and not wanting to change at the same time. This is normal, not resistance. MI works with ambivalence rather than against it.
|
||||
|
||||
**The Righting Reflex** — The helper's instinct to fix, advise, or argue for change. Paradoxically, this often increases resistance. MI resists the righting reflex.
|
||||
|
||||
**Readiness Rulers** — "On a scale of 0-10, how important is this change to you?" followed by "Why a 5 and not a 2?" (elicits change talk, not deficit).
|
||||
|
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### Key Questions
|
||||
|
||||
- "What would you like to be different?"
|
||||
- "What's the best thing about the current situation? And the not-so-good things?"
|
||||
- "If you did decide to make a change, what would be your first step?"
|
||||
- "You rated importance at a 7—tell me about that."
|
||||
- "Where does this leave you?"
|
||||
|
||||
### When to Use MI
|
||||
|
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- Ambivalence about change (health, relationships, habits, career)
|
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- Addictive behaviors or harm reduction
|
||||
- Health behavior change (exercise, medication adherence, diet)
|
||||
- When advice-giving or persuasion has failed or backfired
|
||||
- Early stages of change (pre-contemplation, contemplation)
|
||||
- Any situation where autonomy and self-direction matter
|
||||
|
||||
### MI Exercises
|
||||
|
||||
- Decisional balance: exploring pros and cons of change and status quo
|
||||
- Readiness ruler with follow-up (why not lower?)
|
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- "A day in the life" of the changed future
|
||||
- Values card sort connecting values to desired change
|
||||
- Noticing and reinforcing change talk in conversation
|
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|
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## Narrative Therapy
|
||||
|
||||
**Core principle:** People are not their problems—problems are the problems. We live through stories, and the dominant stories we carry about ourselves shape what we notice, what we believe is possible, and how we act. By externalizing problems and re-authoring stories, people can reclaim agency over their own lives.
|
||||
|
||||
### Core Concepts
|
||||
|
||||
**Externalization**
|
||||
- Separating the person from the problem
|
||||
- "The anxiety" instead of "your anxiety" or "you're anxious"
|
||||
- Gives the person a relationship with the problem rather than an identity fused with it
|
||||
- "How long has Perfectionism been running the show?"
|
||||
|
||||
**Dominant Story**
|
||||
- The prevailing narrative a person carries about who they are
|
||||
- Often shaped by culture, family, institutions, and painful experiences
|
||||
- Tends to be problem-saturated: focusing on deficits, failures, and limitations
|
||||
- "I've always been the broken one in my family"
|
||||
|
||||
**Preferred Story**
|
||||
- The alternative narrative that aligns with the person's values and hopes
|
||||
- Already present in their life, but overshadowed by the dominant story
|
||||
- "There's also a story about someone who keeps showing up despite everything"
|
||||
|
||||
**Unique Outcomes**
|
||||
- Moments that contradict the dominant story
|
||||
- Times when the problem didn't win, or the person acted from their preferred story
|
||||
- Often overlooked or dismissed—Narrative Therapy makes them visible
|
||||
- "Tell me about a time when Self-Doubt didn't get the last word"
|
||||
|
||||
**Thick Description**
|
||||
- Moving from thin conclusions ("I'm a failure") to richly detailed stories
|
||||
- Adding context, meaning, history, and multiple perspectives
|
||||
- Thin: "I failed." Thick: "I attempted something difficult, with little support, during a hard season of my life, and the outcome wasn't what I hoped—but I tried."
|
||||
|
||||
### The Re-Authoring Process
|
||||
|
||||
1. **Name the problem** — Externalize it, give it a character
|
||||
2. **Map the effects** — How does the problem influence thoughts, feelings, relationships, actions?
|
||||
3. **Evaluate** — Is this what the person wants? Does the problem serve them?
|
||||
4. **Find unique outcomes** — When has the person resisted or escaped the problem's influence?
|
||||
5. **Thicken the alternative story** — Build detail, meaning, and history around the preferred narrative
|
||||
6. **Recruit an audience** — Who in the person's life would recognize and support this new story?
|
||||
|
||||
### Key Questions
|
||||
|
||||
- "If [Problem] had a voice, what would it say to you?"
|
||||
- "What does [Problem] want you to believe about yourself?"
|
||||
- "When has there been a time—even small—when you didn't let [Problem] have the final say?"
|
||||
- "Who in your life would be least surprised to hear this alternative story about you?"
|
||||
- "What would you name this chapter of your life?"
|
||||
|
||||
### When to Use Narrative Therapy
|
||||
|
||||
- Identity-level struggles ("I'm broken," "I'm unlovable")
|
||||
- Cultural, family, or systemic pressures shaping self-concept
|
||||
- Grief and loss (re-storying relationship with what was lost)
|
||||
- Shame and stigma
|
||||
- Life transitions requiring new self-understanding
|
||||
- When someone feels defined by their diagnosis or problems
|
||||
|
||||
### Narrative Exercises
|
||||
|
||||
- Externalization naming: give the problem a name or character
|
||||
- Timeline of unique outcomes: mapping moments of resistance or agency
|
||||
- Letter from your future self living the preferred story
|
||||
- Re-authoring a pivotal life event with thick description
|
||||
- Recruiting witnesses: identifying people who see the preferred story
|
||||
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|
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|
||||
## Polyvagal-Informed Work
|
||||
|
||||
**Core principle:** Our nervous system constantly scans for safety and danger (neuroception), and our emotional and behavioral responses are shaped by which autonomic state we're in. Understanding the nervous system's states isn't just information—it's a map for self-regulation and healing.
|
||||
|
||||
### Three Autonomic States
|
||||
|
||||
**1. Ventral Vagal (Safe and Social)**
|
||||
- Feeling safe, connected, present, and engaged
|
||||
- Access to curiosity, play, creativity, and compassion
|
||||
- Social engagement system is online: eye contact, vocal prosody, facial expression
|
||||
- This is the state where healing, learning, and connection happen
|
||||
- "I'm okay. You're okay. We're okay."
|
||||
|
||||
**2. Sympathetic (Fight or Flight)**
|
||||
- Mobilization in response to perceived threat
|
||||
- Anxiety, anger, panic, restlessness, agitation
|
||||
- Heart racing, shallow breathing, muscle tension
|
||||
- "Something is wrong. I need to act."
|
||||
- Adaptive when danger is real; problematic when chronically activated
|
||||
|
||||
**3. Dorsal Vagal (Shutdown)**
|
||||
- Immobilization in response to overwhelming threat
|
||||
- Numbness, disconnection, collapse, dissociation, hopelessness
|
||||
- Feeling frozen, foggy, flat, or "not here"
|
||||
- "It's too much. I can't."
|
||||
- The oldest survival response—playing dead
|
||||
|
||||
### Key Concepts
|
||||
|
||||
**Neuroception**
|
||||
- The nervous system's unconscious detection of safety or danger
|
||||
- Happens below awareness—we feel the shift before we understand it
|
||||
- Can be faulty: detecting danger when safe, or missing real threats
|
||||
- "Your nervous system decided before you did"
|
||||
|
||||
**The Autonomic Ladder**
|
||||
- A way to visualize movement between states
|
||||
- Top: Ventral vagal (safe, connected)
|
||||
- Middle: Sympathetic (activated, mobilized)
|
||||
- Bottom: Dorsal vagal (shut down, collapsed)
|
||||
- People move up and down the ladder throughout the day
|
||||
- Therapy helps build awareness of where you are and pathways back to ventral
|
||||
|
||||
**Glimmers**
|
||||
- Small, micro-moments of ventral vagal activation
|
||||
- A warm breeze, a kind voice, sunlight on skin, a pet's presence
|
||||
- The opposite of triggers—cues of safety
|
||||
- Noticing glimmers trains the nervous system to find its way back to safety
|
||||
|
||||
**Co-Regulation**
|
||||
- Our nervous systems are designed to regulate together
|
||||
- A calm presence can help settle an activated system
|
||||
- This is why "just be there" is sometimes the most powerful intervention
|
||||
- The therapeutic relationship itself is a co-regulation tool
|
||||
|
||||
### Key Questions
|
||||
|
||||
- "Where on the ladder do you feel like you are right now?"
|
||||
- "What does your body feel like in this moment?"
|
||||
- "What helps you find your way back to feeling safe and connected?"
|
||||
- "When did you notice the shift happening?"
|
||||
- "What are your glimmers—the small things that help you feel settled?"
|
||||
|
||||
### When to Use Polyvagal-Informed Work
|
||||
|
||||
- Chronic anxiety or hypervigilance
|
||||
- Dissociation, numbness, or emotional shutdown
|
||||
- Trauma responses (especially when they feel "irrational")
|
||||
- Difficulty feeling safe in relationships
|
||||
- Emotional dysregulation that feels body-based rather than thought-based
|
||||
- Building a foundation for other therapeutic work
|
||||
- Psychoeducation: helping people understand their own nervous system
|
||||
|
||||
### Vagal Toning Practices
|
||||
|
||||
- Soothing rhythm breathing with extended exhale
|
||||
- Humming, singing, or chanting (stimulates the vagus nerve)
|
||||
- Cold water on the face or wrists
|
||||
- Orienting: slowly looking around the room, naming what you see
|
||||
- Gentle movement: rocking, swaying, stretching
|
||||
- Social engagement: safe eye contact, warm vocal tone, listening to music
|
||||
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|
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|
||||
## Psychodynamic Therapy
|
||||
|
||||
**Core principle:** Much of what drives our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors operates outside conscious awareness. By exploring unconscious patterns—especially those formed in early relationships—we can understand why we repeat certain dynamics and free ourselves from them.
|
||||
|
||||
### Key Concepts
|
||||
|
||||
**Unconscious influences**
|
||||
- Beliefs, fears, and desires we're not fully aware of that shape our choices
|
||||
- What we don't know about ourselves still affects us
|
||||
- Making the unconscious conscious is the path to freedom
|
||||
|
||||
**Relational patterns**
|
||||
- How early attachment experiences create templates for current relationships
|
||||
- We tend to recreate familiar dynamics, even painful ones
|
||||
- Understanding the pattern is the first step to changing it
|
||||
|
||||
**Transference**
|
||||
- Noticing when feelings about past figures (parents, caregivers) show up in present relationships
|
||||
- How we relate to the therapist can reveal broader patterns
|
||||
- "You remind me of..." often points to important material
|
||||
|
||||
**Defense mechanisms**
|
||||
- How we protect ourselves from painful feelings
|
||||
- Common defenses: denial, projection, rationalization, intellectualization, displacement
|
||||
- Defenses served a purpose; we explore them with curiosity, not judgment
|
||||
|
||||
**Insight**
|
||||
- Understanding the "why" behind patterns as a path to change
|
||||
- Intellectual understanding is a start; emotional understanding transforms
|
||||
- "Aha" moments often come from connecting past to present
|
||||
|
||||
### Key Questions
|
||||
|
||||
- "What does this remind you of from earlier in your life?"
|
||||
- "I notice you tend to [pattern]. What do you make of that?"
|
||||
- "What feelings come up when you imagine [situation]?"
|
||||
- "How might your past experiences be shaping how you're seeing this?"
|
||||
- "Who does this person/situation remind you of?"
|
||||
- "What would [parent/caregiver] have said about this?"
|
||||
- "What did you learn about [topic] growing up?"
|
||||
|
||||
### When to Use Psychodynamic Approaches
|
||||
|
||||
- Recurring relationship patterns ("Why do I keep choosing the same kind of partner?")
|
||||
- Feeling "stuck" in ways that don't respond to behavioral strategies
|
||||
- Wanting to understand the deeper "why"
|
||||
- Exploring family-of-origin dynamics
|
||||
- When surface-level solutions aren't enough
|
||||
- Self-defeating patterns that persist despite insight
|
||||
- Difficulty with intimacy or trust
|
||||
|
||||
### Therapeutic Techniques
|
||||
|
||||
**Free association**
|
||||
- Say whatever comes to mind without censoring
|
||||
- Follow the thread of associations
|
||||
- Notice what's hard to say
|
||||
|
||||
**Exploring the past**
|
||||
- Childhood experiences and family dynamics
|
||||
- Key relationships and their patterns
|
||||
- Formative experiences that shaped beliefs
|
||||
|
||||
**Linking past to present**
|
||||
- "It sounds like what's happening now echoes [past experience]"
|
||||
- Help client see connections they might miss
|
||||
- Illuminate how history repeats
|
||||
|
||||
**Working with resistance**
|
||||
- Notice when client avoids certain topics
|
||||
- Explore what makes something hard to talk about
|
||||
- Resistance often protects important material
|
||||
|
||||
### Important Considerations
|
||||
|
||||
- Insight alone doesn't always create change—emotional processing matters
|
||||
- Some clients prefer action-oriented approaches; meet them where they are
|
||||
- Deep exploration requires strong therapeutic alliance
|
||||
- Pace according to client's readiness
|
||||
- Balance understanding the past with living in the present
|
||||
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|
||||
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|
||||
## Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT)
|
||||
|
||||
**Core principle:** People already have the strengths and resources they need to solve their problems. Rather than analyzing what's wrong, SFBT focuses on what's already working, what the person wants instead, and the smallest next step toward that future.
|
||||
|
||||
### Core Techniques
|
||||
|
||||
**The Miracle Question**
|
||||
- "Suppose tonight, while you sleep, a miracle happens and this problem is solved. When you wake up tomorrow, what's the first thing you'd notice that tells you something is different?"
|
||||
- Not about magic—it's about clarifying the preferred future in concrete, behavioral terms
|
||||
- Follow-up: "What else would be different? Who would notice first? What would they see?"
|
||||
|
||||
**Scaling Questions**
|
||||
- "On a scale of 0-10, where 10 is the miracle and 0 is the worst it's been, where are you today?"
|
||||
- Follow-up is always about what's already working: "What puts you at a 4 instead of a 3?"
|
||||
- Then: "What would a 5 look like? What would be one small difference?"
|
||||
- Useful for progress, confidence, motivation, safety, and hope
|
||||
|
||||
**Exception-Finding**
|
||||
- "When is the problem less intense or absent?"
|
||||
- "What's different about the times when things go better?"
|
||||
- "What are you doing differently when the problem isn't showing up?"
|
||||
- Exceptions reveal existing competence and coping
|
||||
|
||||
**Coping Questions**
|
||||
- Used when things feel hopeless: "How have you managed to keep going?"
|
||||
- "With everything you're dealing with, how are you still here, still trying?"
|
||||
- Validates struggle while surfacing hidden resilience
|
||||
- Not dismissive—deeply respectful of difficulty
|
||||
|
||||
**Best Hopes**
|
||||
- "What are your best hopes for our conversation today?"
|
||||
- Orients the session toward what the person wants, not just what's wrong
|
||||
- Keeps work focused and collaborative
|
||||
|
||||
### Key Assumptions
|
||||
|
||||
- If it works, do more of it
|
||||
- If it doesn't work, do something different
|
||||
- Small steps lead to big changes
|
||||
- The solution doesn't have to be directly related to the problem
|
||||
- People are resourceful and capable
|
||||
- Change is constant and inevitable
|
||||
|
||||
### Key Questions
|
||||
|
||||
- "What's been better since we last talked?" (presupposes change)
|
||||
- "How did you do that?" (attributes agency)
|
||||
- "What would your best friend say you're good at when things get hard?"
|
||||
- "What's one small sign of progress you could look for this week?"
|
||||
- "On a scale of 1-10, how confident are you that you can take that next step?"
|
||||
|
||||
### When to Use SFBT
|
||||
|
||||
- Feeling stuck or hopeless
|
||||
- Clear desire for change but unsure how to start
|
||||
- Situations where problem-analysis has become circular
|
||||
- Building momentum after a setback
|
||||
- Brief or time-limited therapy contexts
|
||||
- When someone needs a confidence boost grounded in real evidence
|
||||
- Complement to other approaches (SFBT pairs well with nearly anything)
|
||||
|
||||
### SFBT Exercises
|
||||
|
||||
- Miracle question exploration with detailed follow-up
|
||||
- Scaling current progress and identifying what's already working
|
||||
- Exception tracking: noticing when things go better and what's different
|
||||
- "Do more of what works" experiment
|
||||
- Pre-session change observation: "Notice what's going well before next time"
|
||||
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|
||||
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|
||||
## Somatic Experiencing (SE)
|
||||
|
||||
**Core principle:** Trauma lives in the body, not just the mind. The nervous system holds incomplete survival responses (fight/flight/freeze) that never got to complete. Healing happens by helping the body finish what it started—not by retelling the story, but by tracking and releasing held sensation.
|
||||
|
||||
### Key Concepts
|
||||
|
||||
**Titration**
|
||||
- Work in small doses; don't overwhelm the system
|
||||
- Touch into activation briefly, then return to safety
|
||||
- "A little bit at a time" prevents retraumatization
|
||||
|
||||
**Pendulation**
|
||||
- Move between activation and calm, building capacity
|
||||
- Natural rhythm of the nervous system
|
||||
- Don't stay in distress—oscillate to resource
|
||||
|
||||
**Tracking sensation**
|
||||
- "Where do you feel that in your body right now?"
|
||||
- Notice without interpreting or analyzing
|
||||
- Stay curious about what the body is doing
|
||||
|
||||
**Completing responses**
|
||||
- Let trapped survival energy discharge naturally
|
||||
- The body knows how to release if given space
|
||||
- May look like movement impulses, temperature changes, shaking
|
||||
|
||||
**Window of tolerance**
|
||||
- Stay within the zone where processing is possible
|
||||
- Too much activation = overwhelm; too little = shutdown
|
||||
- Regulate back into the window when needed
|
||||
|
||||
### Core Techniques
|
||||
|
||||
**Resourcing**
|
||||
- Identify and anchor to felt sense of safety
|
||||
- "Think of a place, person, or memory that feels good"
|
||||
- Build a foundation before touching difficult material
|
||||
|
||||
**Grounding**
|
||||
- Feet on floor, contact with chair, orienting to room
|
||||
- "Feel your feet. Feel your back against the chair."
|
||||
- Brings attention to present-moment safety
|
||||
|
||||
**Sensation tracking**
|
||||
- Notice without interpreting (tight, buzzy, warm, cold, heavy, tingly)
|
||||
- "Just notice what's there without needing to change it"
|
||||
- Stay descriptive, not analytical
|
||||
|
||||
**Discharge**
|
||||
- Allow shaking, sighing, yawning, temperature shifts
|
||||
- Natural release of held energy
|
||||
- Don't interrupt or interpret—just allow
|
||||
|
||||
### Key Questions
|
||||
|
||||
- "What do you notice in your body as you say that?"
|
||||
- "Where does that live in your body?"
|
||||
- "What happens if you just stay with that sensation for a moment?"
|
||||
- "Is there an impulse there? What does your body want to do?"
|
||||
- "If that sensation could speak, what would it say?"
|
||||
- "What does your body need right now?"
|
||||
|
||||
### When to Use SE
|
||||
|
||||
- Trauma (acute and complex)
|
||||
- Anxiety with strong physical component
|
||||
- Chronic tension or pain
|
||||
- Dissociation
|
||||
- Panic attacks
|
||||
- When cognitive approaches aren't reaching the issue
|
||||
- When the body "knows" something the mind can't access yet
|
||||
- Stuck fight/flight/freeze responses
|
||||
|
||||
### Important Considerations
|
||||
|
||||
- Go slowly—the nervous system needs time
|
||||
- Resource before, during, and after touching activation
|
||||
- Some people need more cognitive grounding first
|
||||
- Watch for dissociation and bring back to body awareness
|
||||
- Honor the body's wisdom and pacing
|
||||
Reference in New Issue
Block a user